What is the point play if I can't take over cities with out that the person who own the city accept to go to war.

I think that no logical person will accept war when he knows that his city can be taken nor do I , aseptically when he will check me out and know that I'm stronger then him.

The is this rules starting to remind me more the application farm villa from facebook, just to grow more, when this suppose to be a war game and kingdoms.

I do not see any point to play the game.

Please correct me if I'm wrong. (or I'm missing the point of the game)