Hi
Paran007,
First, welcome to the Outremer Server and congratulations on keeping up with the game: 380th player out of more than 4000, for a "beginner" as you call yourself, that's pretty good!
I think I might understand why Isceon is doing what you describe he does: if you don't become the vassal of a Sicilian Order –directly if you become the vassal of an Order Member or indirectly if you become the vassal of a vassal of an Order Member– you become a threat. Reason is: having local players growing in power joining as vassals secures the land from fake Sicilians who might be players starting to play in Sicily (for example) but who later may choose to become vassals of enemy lands, like Seljuk knights, as you mentioned (NOTE: in the upper right corner of your city screen, you can go to HELP and CHRONIC where you can keep track of the current diplomacy. Seljuk and Sicily are at PEACE for the time being
) and who offer ways for enemies to attack through your cities.
So, it is for him the best way to secure his zone of influence by having everyone there "under his control".
Now, as per the ways you describe he uses, yes, on other servers I have myself also suffered from this type of repeated actions. On one server, less than 24hours after I refused such an offer, two of my cities had been bulldozed by the friend of the guy the vassalship of which I had refused to embrace... Anyhow, sometimes it can really get ugly...
When it happens, I usually ignore it. I just destroy my own city and go elsewhere!
Or, I even take shelter under the care of a less greedy/friendlier Lord under the condition that he will protect and retaliate against that pushy player...
Some things you need to know: being a vassal offers many advantages:
- first, you can recruit troops that your Lord gets from the Mercenary Camps he controls that you would not be able to get otherwise ;
- then, you can travel through/attack from the cities of your Lord and the members of the Order he belongs to ;
- and you should also receive advice/backup/training/support/protection and be able take part in campaigns/attacks the same way as if you were a member of his Order!
Of course, it all depends on your Lord's personality, dedication to his vassals and trust in you!
Last thing to know but not least: you can leave a Lord within 24 hours with no consequence for you except of course the eventual actions your Lord could take against you later. So, bottom line: if your Lord doesn't live up to his promises, you can threaten to leave him ; if he doesn't positively changes, just leave him! He will then lose the Mercenary Points he was getting from you and also... lose a great player
So, no, the game is not always that ugly. Try to make peace with Isceon (it is always good to be in good terms with powerful players, especially the ones that are from your homeland
) and negotiate what he is ready to offer for your MPs. Otherwise, if you are upset enough and not ready to forgive and forget what he did to you, go find another powerful Order Master in Sicily (or why not, the King of Sicily himself as there is one on the Outremer server
) so that there would not be any way you would be attacked in the future for this reason by the same player!
Keep us posted on the progress on your situation!
Enjoy the game!